Hello, Motivation, Where Are You?

Dear Queen, did you ever ask yourself one magical question:


“Where can I find motivation?"


We all constantly pop this question to each other. You can even start believing that motivation is similar to Chupacabra ( legendary creature just like Loch Ness monster): everyone looks for it, yet no one is really sure how it really looks.


In fact, not even sure, if it exists. No, wait, it does, doesn´t it?



Well, darling, motivation is actually inside you; so it is indeed quite confusing seeing many women, who do their searches by looking outside their inner apartments.


Motivation is not gonna knock on yours doors and announce that it is there, because, well, it already lives with you.

Definitely, environmental things can enhance your motivation, but the core building block foundation on which you build your house of goals is already inside yourself.


If you are unable to understand that and truly feel it – you will be unable to achieve any kind of precious desire.


Let´s just stop here and try to explain the definition of motivation for ourselves.


What is exactly motivation?

Mostly people explain it as some sort of powerful help that drives you to the goal, kicks your butt and minimizes the risk of failing.


It seems like it is an invisible guru leading us through everything, we just sit and do not need to do anything.


That guru controls it all.


Wai wait wait.... Heck, who is in control here? It is you and only you.


You make these choices. You kick your butt. You plan. You do. You even fail and raise again. Or you complain.


The worst disease happening worldwide is that we often use motivation only to explain our achievements or non-achievements, because surely all the results are only the work of Miss Motivation.


Explaining our failure becomes so much easier, when we say “I was not able to do it, because my motivation diminished”.