Darling, spirituality and human experience is related.
Please, read it once more. And maybe once more. Just to let it sink in....
It really is. This is why I constantly try to discuss with you both soul consciousness and human technical skills that might not sound that yummy, but in truth it is all a combination of both - spirituality & human ordinary thingies.
Otherwise we would not be on Earth! Otherwise we would not be experiencing this. We would not be here as spiritual beings having human experience, if we would not need to learn from it something.
We are here to use human-based tools. In other words, we need to combine both our souls and our minds.
This is why I often say that goal setting can and SHOULD BE SPIRITUAL.
Are there any bad ways how we can go for it?
Absolutely! But goal setting itself is neither good or bad.
Having goals and going after them is totally fine for any spiritual being. Yet, certainly, we need to ensure not to make it a devastating obsession.
Though, we can still accomplish those goals with big passion and truly enjoy the whole process. Enjoyment is surely one those human-learning lessons we need to learn too.
This past weekend, I have been participating in a beautiful 3 days event called "DREAM BUILDER" together with my Boo ( sooo proud of him) and got A WOW amount of marvellous reminders how beautiful dream- setting can be.
Most importantly, I energised myself for the whole month being there with other dream builders, dancing, creating ideas, and having lots of fun and deep work, both at the same time!
Because even though the dream itself is a process, not a destination, creating some "end goals" can be really pleasant.
Though, here by "end goals" I do not truly mean the end goals.
I mean some deadlines with clarification, which bring some certain results and that definitely require some kick-ass celebration.
In the end, nothing is truly the end, but it does not mean we cannot identify it as some kind of the end.
Each end is the beggining of itself and each beggining is the end of something. This reminds me the powerful Death card of Tarot that so many people fear of.
But death card is where the end and the beginning meets together, and that's the deepest lesson of life, which we truly need to learn to appreciate (hey, lots of lessons in this post woooohoo... certainly feeling the teacher vibes).
This is why in this post, I want to speak with you about 3 things that we might be doing wrong when we go after our dreams or goals.
"Wrong", because these things contract our energies more than expand. And well.... it is not ok, because for manifestation we need the expansion of energy in order to meet the Universe.
Plus, any contraction is not a pleasant experience both for our minds and for our body too.
So, promise me to avoid these 3 wrongies below:
1. FOCUS THE MOST NOT ON DIRECTION, BUT ON ATTENTION
Creation of dreams definitely require certain direction, because without it we just would be walking in circles around not truly understanding what we are reaching for. Not even understanding when we reached it, because is that reaching line?
However, we can identify our direction quite fast. We just need to decide and stick with it. Once we do it - we need to move as fast as possible to the ATTENTION.
Constant focus on direction keeps us in the lack gap. So what we can work on RIGHT NOW? Where we put our ATTENTION AT PRESENT.
Nothing moves us faster towards our DIRECTION than our expanded ATTENTION.
Addition of positive routines. Increased energy. Laughing. Dancing. Loving. Gratitude. Good abundant news. Caring friends. Inspiring people. And sometimes simply a good expensive piece of chocolate, because why not...
2. DON'T CHANGE THE ACTION, CHANGE THE THOUGHTS
Often we believe that changed actions change the results. And well...it does, but only for a short term!
See, the changes happen through this formula:
THOUGHTS > FEELINGS > ACTIONS > RESULTS
Our thoughts (we can say our beliefs that create thoughts) bring certain feelings. Those feelings influence our action or non-action. And our actions bring certain results.
Of course, most of the time we think that we just need to change an action and it will bring us different results, but most of the things lie much.... much deeper.
It lies in our thoughts, our belief systems that we created in our lives from our past experiences and our responses to them.
Hence, in order to change something, in order to get a dream (the one we have never gotten) or another result within a small task of the dream - we need to start changing these belief systems and our thoughts.
Easy? Absolutely not, but that is the only way and you know me.... I don't put things for you in spiritual unicorn sparkles. I want you to know the real truth.
3. WHEN THE GOAL SEEMS NOT TO WORK
What do we when our goal seems not to work? Some of us try a little bit more, but just some of us.....
Most of us simply give up, because obviously they tried and it literally slapped them in their faces. So what's the point to consume more energy? Quitting seems to be the logical option.
However, if your goal or task is not working, that does not mean there is no other alternative leading to the same or similar result. Most often, we have a huge amount of alternatives we are not even aware of....
Also, if you are feeling blocked - that might not even be due to some kind of action or thing you have done or are doing. In other words, it might not be necessary the fault of the task.
But maybe there is something wrong with its energetic frequency?
By this I mean that you can do 1 single thing in 10 different ways with 10 different results based on energy you radiate when you do it.
If you do it stressed and in a rush ... well ... the results will be very different when you will do it calmly, taking breaks.
This is because each single thing you do radiates certain energy around it.
Not only living things have energy, but also the tasks by itself. The events and the things.
I know it is not an easy thing to comprehend, but everything is energy and every. non-living thing is actually somehow alive.
Though, here is one more important thing: we need to be open for the opportunities and possibilities too.
I often say that the Universe brings this or BETTER.
NEVER THE WORST, because the Universe is here to grow and this is why it wants you to grow too.
Yes, you hear me right. The Universe is growing and expanding together with us.
So when you get a shitty thing do not judge it too fast. Maybe that shitty thing is moving you towards a much better result. Cause the Universe wants to give you MORE.
Mmm how do these 3 thingies sound for you? The last one was a little deeper wasn't it? But all are just as important.
Let me know which one touched you the most.
And, hey, remember to make that big promise of trying to avoid these nasties in you future dream setting life. To your dreams, love!